I met a guy in his 50's who was a retired Sgt. Major from the Army and was working as a flight attendant. He used to get questions from his female coworkers on what it was like to be a gay man in the military. (He wasn't gay)

Male nurses (again, this is anecdote from my sister) are handed the most troublesome and aggravating patients with the assumption that they are willing to be "rough" with them (and the implied threat to the patient is that if they are nice, they get the pretty nurses to come back). They are given the jobs that require heavy lifting (like moving patients) in a medical setting and are subjected to vicious gossip campaigns about their sex lives.

I've worked in an all-female IT department. Six women, one guy. Believe me I've got stories. Not all internet gender-memes are universal. All experiences are valid and inform the debate. Even those that don't conform to the proffered agenda.

We need to be a little more empathic all-around. It's not a contest to see who can be more outraged or oppressed.