If you want this workflow, you can treat jj's `@` (nominally equivalent to git's HEAD) as the git index, then at commit time, manually squash changes to `@-` just like you would with `git add --patch`.
When I've asked about using a jj stage, that's the workflow people pointed me to, as described in this tutorial [0]. I've not tried it, nor jujutsu, but I felt it worth pointing at a concrete example to allay or stoke fears of people on the fence.
