Like most I try to avoid doing my parents mistakes. Probably doing a bunch of new ones though. Can't avoid that.
As for general advice, kids are just really different. What works for some people is a combination of parent and child. There is no one size fits all approach.
As for TV/youtube, one of our kids can get quite obsessive about things. So we had to tell him the TV is broken and it is too expensive to fix. Because he had to learn to entertain himself more.
Regardles screen time should be very limited and a reward for good behavior.
As for general advice, kids are just really different. What works for some people is a combination of parent and child. There is no one size fits all approach.
As for TV/youtube, one of our kids can get quite obsessive about things. So we had to tell him the TV is broken and it is too expensive to fix. Because he had to learn to entertain himself more.
Regardles screen time should be very limited and a reward for good behavior.